“My significant other where we’ve been for eleven months has been very distant and avoidant for the last three months. She hasn’t been acknowledging my feelings and dismissing them calling me selfish. When will she come back and what does she truly feel for me? It doesn’t clearly reflect at all from what the other advisors tell me. Me: male Taehyuan 1/9/2002 Her: female Meg 1/1/1997”

THE SACRED OVERVIEW

The oracle of love recognizes what you're carrying right now, Taehyuan, and it is heavier than most people would admit out loud. Eleven months of something real, and then three months of watching Meg go somewhere you couldn't follow, while being told that wanting to reach her makes you selfish. That is a particular kind of loneliness, and it deserves to be named before anything else is said.